Sketch Your Future

Our language creates our reality. The words we utter resonate in universe and set the intentions of Universe to give us what have we asked for!

‘I never got lucky,’…..Ok! Universe heard you.
Little fortunate incidents of winning a lotto or Bingo will never come your way. But I also know people who say, ‘I always win’ and they always have stories to share that how fortune favors them.

Language is a tool for sketching your future .Use language to nudge universe towards different ways of giving you what you aspire for. Whenever your rational, logical brain tries to tell you that your PRESENT state is ok and comfortable; just take these three steps:

Stop……Think……… REPHRASE!

If you are stuck with a mucky job and an irritating boss, or a girl you want to talk to, just say a better job with a supportive boss is looking for you instead of my salary package is fine /my boss is not that bad/ why she will look at me when she can have anyone, Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat!
Poke your future with positive statements. Statements that exude better picture of our future should be your favorite and at tip of your tongue. Small phrases, like ‘I can do it’ than ‘it’s impossible’ can do wonders and change your reality upside down for better.

Speak ……. Write …… Sketch!

Research says that odds of changing your life are 9 on 10. Whoaaaaaaaaaaa! It’s quite a great opportunity to build on your words. Graciously ask, pen down what you are seeking on paper and Sketch it! You do not need to be an artist extraordinaire to sketch and paint your future. Just use plain stick figures with bright colors to paint your vision. Do not forget to draw the roadmap to change with your desired new reality.

Put this picture in front of you as a reminder to ACT.
Do not forget to Act. Just Act and see your efforts coming to fruition.

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