Interviews are conversations
between two people (maybe more) with the primary objective of judging an applicant
by the recruiter. The interview is a complex process where
oral communication, persuasion, negotiation and storytelling work in tandem to
help recruiter judge a candidature. The job of the candidate is to persuade the
recruiter to judge in his/her favour.
Storytelling has a
wider use in today’s world whether it’s marketing a brand or marketing self to
a Recruiter, storytelling can do the magic for you. My interactions with
students just out of the interview room, at UPES as an employability coach, give
me a sneak peek of what works and what does not. Those who come out smiling
have a story to tell and those with a frown are lost for words.
The emotional
connections that stories make are engaging and move the audience. Storytelling
persuades listeners to be more attentive. Those who understand the power of
stories do their best to widen their outlook and those who withdraw into their
shelves and do not see anything but the walls of their shells.
Using stories is scientific as research
shows while listening to stories our brain releases happiness hormones like,
Dopamine, Oxytocin, Serotonin and Endorphins (DOSE). Dopamine enhances focus
whereas Oxytocin induces trust and generate empathy. Serotonin supports memory
and Endorphins help the listeners to relax and focus on creativity. Focus,
Empathy, Trust, Imprinting memory and Creativity are the major ingredients that
help interviewee persuade a recruiter to judge in his/her favour, and a story
helps you do that.
‘The Universe is made of stories, not
of atoms’ said Muriel
Rukeyser.
We all have trunks full of stories, we just have to reflect and collect them on paper.
I suggest students sit with pen
paper and replicate all their experiences in and out of the classroom on their
college journey. Then index your stories to sort them and use as per the questions
asked in the interviews. It may be an event you hosted or a contest you won, a
paper published. A project is done right or even a failed experiment is a story to
showcase your values, interests and abilities to the interviewer.
Stories that follows Aristotle’s
principle of Ethos Pathos and Logos are interesting and impactful.
Ethos-Personal Credibility/Authenticity-
using personal experiences as ways to communicate skills and abilities entice
focus and better judgment as recruiters can assess that with your skills they
will be able to solve problems at their workplace or not.
Pathos- Appeal to emotions using
Personal Stories-the anecdotes of personal triumphs and tribulations engage the
listener. It helps to build rapport and trust which are underline factors of
decision making. Whether the recruiter can trust you with their work depends on
your ability to build rapport and connect. Storytelling can help to overcome the bias of confirmation and selection to shift decision in your favour.
Logos-Using facts and evidence – Use
of facts and numbers in illustrating skills make you sound credible. Showing
than just telling helps to create credibility. To demonstrate team building
skills narrate an incident where you support a project group to come together
to brainstorm and deliver better results with accurate project results.
Short is better than long, simple is
engaging than complex and less is always more. SHE model of answering any
interview question with your story helps to hold recruiters attention to
persuade.
S-Succinct- (logos)-Dopamine
H-Honest - (Ethos)-Oxytocin
E-Engaging- (Pathos)-Serotonin and
Endorphins
Experiences may be different but they
are a unifying thread. So, own your stories, tell them with openness, and
create a feeling of wonder to evoke the interest of recruiters in you. I am sure
using your stories to let a recruiter know your skills and strengths will help
you win that interview.
Happy Storytelling!
Storytelling widens the horizon of everybody's knowledge and helps us to understand the society better.
ReplyDeleteThis is an amazing blog!!!!
As per MURIEL -RUKEYSER , The Universe is made of stories , not of atoms . The atoms in Society are families and Individuals . Their stories are description of this world .Going for interviews for a job involves conversations between two or more people. This is required for judging an applicant mind by recruiter. The Candidate has to persuade , negotiate & orally communicate to make recruiter judge in his/her favor.
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