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Live ....Stop Trying!


No matter how much you try....

You wont be able to make everyone happy.There will always be something you could not do for the other side.There are parents ,teachers,friends,colleagues and people around you in all shapes and sizes.everyone expect something or other from you.You are expected to dress in a particular manner,speak courteously ,eat graciously,work your ass off ,learn for life ;still its not enough.


You will never be enough,So WHY worry?

Do your best ,leave the rest.So what is our best? Only you can decide.Set the expectations right from the beginning.If you have already given high hopes to others,its never too late to set the boundaries right.

People will forget what you said or did,They will only remember the way you made them feel.
Build a daily gratitude habit and feel more positive,less stressed,and sleep better.Be fearless in the pursuit of what sets your soul on fire .Moment when you are all fiery and living full; the crowd around you will set itself to its own periphery.

Empower them with empathy and kindness.Secret of good life lies in respecting yourself.
Respect Yourself and acknowledge your own feelings, World will acknowledge them.Its okay to take risks ,that is how we learn.

Respecting yourself will be a challenging concept to learn but I believe you can master it.

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